
If you are reading this and you don't know I am Chinese, shame on you! I am one of those unique populations that is frequently mistaken as "banana" or "twinkie". Like many of my friends, we grew up and got educated in the western world. Some of us have also done some crazy travel in life and got a mix of all Western cultures! Nevertheless, we all have strong ties to the motherland. Either we speak and write Chinese fluently or our parents are in China or we spent close to half of our lives in China prior to immigration. However, that's not the point of this post.
The point of this post is really on the question
"where do people like us stand?"
Not many of us can claim that we are American. Simply, we look and talk differently from typical American. We eat things like Beef Tongues and use Chopsticks. Not many of us can claim that we are true Chinese either. We have spent a significant part of our life outside of China. We are not up-to-date with the Chinese way. Our way of thinking sometimes are pure "white", so to speak.
I have had this conversation with quite a number of our friends. Some friends of ours are quite troubled by this fact. I personally think this is really our true advantage. Early on in life, my mentor Mr. Franz taught me that "Americans come in all shapes, sizes, and colors". This is the banner that was hanging off the wall that I spent a good 4 years with. I also think I am as much of a Chinese as anyone else. For starters, who has dated a girl with a Chinese flag hanging off of her wall? We all have differences, with a billion some Chinese, you are set to be different from others.
The beauty really comes in when people like me can pick and choose who I want to be. I choose to be an American on some issues and I choose to be a Chinese on others. I enjoy eating delicious Chinese food which might well turned out to be too much for any American. I enjoy the awesome capitalism in action. Interestingly, you have more capitalism in a local market in Shanghai than in New York! Sure, I have an "
Obama Rama Air freshener" hanging right above of my head in office and my favorite president is Bill Clinton. Nevertheless, I am also very supportive of various issues on the republican side. This degree of flexibility is what makes me very happy to be where I am.
Now, what do you think?